The beauty of Risk Aware Consensual Kink is the myriad of ways we can explore intense fantasies together while engaging in the safest way possible. Kink and BDSM have the potential to unlock meaningful parts of ourselves, but also can put us at risk of physical and psychological harm. This is why it is so important to engage in these forms of play with intentionality, consent, clear communication, and safety plans.
BDSM, kink, and sensual play are all powerful ways of relating as human beings. But with great power comes great responsibility. I take my responsibility as a facilitator for your experiences as serious, and I am always seeking to ensure everyone involved has a great time.
As part of that practice, I have certain policies I follow with all sessions that I require you to review and consent to, before requesting a session with me.
The backbone of these policies is that I always practices Risk Aware Consensual Kink. Safewords are mandatory. I accept clients of any legal age, from all race and gender backgrounds. All sessions are completely legal and based on the mutual understanding that compensation is for time exchanged.
Do not ask me to do any illegal activities or activities I have declined during negotiation.
Attempting to push any of these limits will result in an immediate termination of communication
In order to be respectful of my time and yours, please ensure you have reviewed these policies and agree to abide by them before you reach out to me. Any attempts to negotiate or violate these policies will result in immediate termination of communication.
I am available for both incall and outcall sessions in Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Queens with a minimum of 48 hours notice.
However, I am frequently busy, so you are more likely to get to session with me if you reach out at least one week in advance.
Same-day sessions, when they can be accommodated, may incur an additional $400 fee.
I offer a few different options for screening, though my preference is always for you to provide me with two references from other providers you have seen within the past 2 years.
Clients who have never seen a professional before may provide a link to an employer or personal website, government identification, or pay for an in-person screening date.
If you and I have seen each other recently (within the past 2 years), I would be happy to provide a reference for you to another provider. I recommend letting me know in advance that you are using Me as a reference; while not necessary, it helps me remember who you are (and what a wonderful time we had).
All sessions require a deposit before my time is reserved and must be received at least 48 hours before our discussed session time. Sessions longer than 4 hours require the deposit to be paid at least one week in advance. Deposits are typically $200, with possible changes depending on the complexity and length of the session.
All virtual sessions must be paid for in full before the session begins.
Sometimes, life happens. Sessions canceled at least 48 hours in advance can be rescheduled without an additional deposit. However, sessions may only be rescheduled twice before being considered a cancellation.
Sessions canceled within 24 hours of our date will require an additional $50 deposit to reschedule.
Sessions canceled with less than 48 hours notice will not receive a refund of deposit.
In order to limit the spread of COVID-19 and protect myself, I require certain safety measures for sessions.
Proof of a negative rapid COVID test taken on the same-day as our session is required. Proof of test can be shown by bringing the test to the session or taking a photo of your negative test held up next to your face, showing the date & time stamp.
I am fully vaccinated against COVID-19 and have received five booster shots since my original vaccination. My preference is for clients to also be vaccinated against COVID-19.
If you have additional COVID safety requirements, please feel free to reach out with your requests and I will accommodate whatever is possible.
While I prefer incalls, I also cater to outcalls. For outcall sessions, I require at least one provider reference if I have not sessioned with you before.
I require that both my time and travel accommodations are paid for before the start of our session. This means you must pay for my travel rate ($100/hr, to your location and back) as well as the cost of a cab/rideshare. Distances that require more than 5 hours travel must include private accommodation for me and a minimum of a 4-hour session.
For extended vacations or Fly Me To You, I require at least three week’s notice. FMTY trips require first class travel and accommodation at a 4+ star hotel for the duration of my stay.
I conduct both incalls and outcalls in Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Queens. I prefer to host in a well-appointed private dungeon space, but am also happy to meet you at a hotel or your space.
For clients outside of NYC, I can travel to you for an additional travel fee of $100/hr plus transportation fees. Distances that require more than 5 hours travel must include private accommodation for me and a minimum of a 4-hour session.
My rates begin at $400. The length of time you’d like to spend together, location and activities impact the total tribute amount.
I do not negotiate rates.
Whether you’d like to book me and some friends or you’d like me to join you and a partner, you’re in for a treat!
If you want to book a double or triple session with multiple providers, please write this in your application. You can review a list of friends I love to session with here. If there is someone you would like to be a part of the scene who is not on this list, I will happily reach out to them to organize the date. This may involve you going through separate screening processes for each of us.
I also love getting to join couples for both kink and vanilla play. If you are interested in me joining you and a partner, please make sure that you also provide their contact information. Both of you will need to be screened.
Yes! I love getting to film content, and would happily share our hot scene with the world if you consent. This does require you to provide copies of your government ID and sign legal forms attesting to your consent. You may be masked in the video, but I cannot blur your form.
If you want to film our scene for your own private collection, this may be done for an added charge.
Lifestyle and collared subs are special little unicorns that are rare to find! Few are willing to do what it takes to earn this privilege.
Before being considered for possible collaring or a lifestyle arrangement, you must first session with me for at least three sessions or an overnight/FMTY.
Demonstrated commitment to my growth as a Dominant will be expected through regular gifts and tribute.
I love so many different parts of kink, but some favorite forms of play include: Mummification and heavy bondage, sharps (needles, staples, scalpels, wet cupping and blood play), advanced breath play, slut training, cuckold fantasies, and taboo role play.
If you are wondering how I feel about a specific kink or fetish of yours, please tell me about it in your session application form. Chances are I’m already familiar with it, and if not, would happily take a class to learn more.
Thoughtful dates will always bring out my best charm. If we’re not already going out to eat, refreshments for our date are always appreciated. Gifts brought to our session that will enhance our experience, like a special toy, new shoes, or leather are my favorite to receive. Check out my favorite brands here.
Some favorite beverages are Harmless Harvest coconut water, unflavored sparkling water, non-alcoholic red or rosé wine, and POM pomegranate juice. I like most classic charcuterie items, berries, and anything with chocolate and peanuts.
If you ‘d like to buy something off my Amazon wishlist, you can find it here.
Yes! In addition to traditional sessions, I offer an array of services that highlight my skills.
Allow me to bring my years of experience in this industry to your event, workshop, film project, or as a BDSM coach or consultant.
Those who would like to hire me for paid performances should complete my hiring form.
If you would like to chat with me about the details of our date, explain the intricacies of your specific fetishes, or simply get to know me better before meeting, you’re welcome to set up a private phone call with me. Calls are $100 for 30 minutes and must be paid in full prior to the call. Video calls are considered on a case-by-case basis and start at $250.
If you have additional questions about logistics and have already reviewed my full site, you may email me. I will not discuss details of our play in my response.
Learning about yourself in the presence of others is the ultimate act of vulnerability. Will you lay yourself bare for me?
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